03 jetta 1.8t questions
 

Hey im new to the Vw world and was wondering if I could get some advice. I just got a 03 jetta 1.8t. its the auto with the kickstick. When i use the kickstick, it shifts on its own. I understand that its a safty thing, but is there any way that I can adjust it so I can shift when I want?? Also I would like to chip the Jetta, but have only found that I have to send my ECU in. Is there another way? Any help is much apriciated.
Thanks to all, Jared.